Thanks again for the help. Now learn about how all of your doubts can be resolved through apologetics. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message. Because I have a husband that is not a member I have a quasi like status in the ward. There is no question this is the true church. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it.
Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences. Ask her on dates. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. We like each other, but I feel like giving up also at times. I hear you, I need my down time to decompress and watch stuff on the Internet, haha. Random Questions to Ask a Guy. I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference.
You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl. Or maybe he's like me and would rather just collapse into bed with you when he gets home. Your attempts at being funny or lightening the mood may backfire, and your date may be put off. But God works in mysterious ways. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. She's admitted to loving me before but she has problems and issues with what she wants. I hope he wised up. I grew away from mine as my husband then-boyfriend slowly grew closer to his Mormon faith. It hurts me the most when my kids ask me why they haven't see daddy in days. I hope this will change in the future - it would be difficult living a lifestyle like this in the long run.
You'll know pretty quick where she stands. The dots are extremely close for every LDS person, its just extremely hard to connect them. I was off travelling the world when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine. I also felt like I could never be a good wife. Be open and talk about your ideals.