And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up. Very true, and we're just getting started Hubby just began his intern year. Anyway, i know that this is not the experience of every surgical marriage but i guarantee most of them can relate in some way or another. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. Sorry if I gave that impression. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. Some days there is so much pain that I can barely type.
The two of us are going on an overnight this weekend. Just as secular marriages have problems, so do temple marriages. I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy. God works by small and simple means to bring about His great and eternal purposes. A stereotype I hope will be destroyed someday, but not today. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way.
Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. I don't think I could let that happen. I keep the positive thought that it will get better.
Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice. Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me. Obviously don't make any commitments further in the relationship because you do not want to be married into an insane orthodox LDS family because it will cause alot of troubles. And most of those end up with both people losing their faith or a divorce. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment.